One of the most common questions people ask before booking a session is: what should I wear to a boudoir photoshoot?
The good news is there isn’t a single correct answer. Boudoir photography is all about confidence, personality and feeling comfortable in your own skin. The most important thing is choosing outfits that make you feel relaxed and confident rather than worrying about what you think you should wear.
As a boudoir photographer based in Leigh, Greater Manchester, I guide clients through outfit ideas before every photoshoot so they arrive prepared and comfortable rather than unsure.
Below are some helpful ideas that work beautifully for boudoir photography.
Classic Lingerie
Lingerie is the most traditional choice for boudoir photography and it works well because it highlights shape and texture in a flattering way.
Popular options include:
• Lace lingerie sets
• Bodysuits
• Bralettes and matching underwear
• Corsets
• Satin robes
Black lingerie is always a strong choice because it creates contrast and dramatic lighting, but neutral tones or soft colours can also create a beautiful, elegant look.
The key is choosing something that fits well and makes you feel confident rather than focusing purely on style.
Oversized Shirts or Knitwear
Not all boudoir photography needs to involve lingerie. Some of the most elegant and natural images come from simple clothing such as oversized shirts or cosy knitwear.
These create a relaxed and intimate feel that many clients love.
Ideas include:
• Oversized white shirt
• Chunky knit sweater
• Off-shoulder jumper
• Loose cardigan
These pieces photograph beautifully because they create texture and soft lines while still feeling stylish and comfortable.
Jackets or Structured Clothing
For a slightly stronger look, some clients bring items like leather jackets, blazers or structured shirts.
These can create a powerful and confident style that feels different from traditional boudoir photography.
Popular options include:
• Leather jackets
• Oversized blazers
• Denim jackets
• Tailored shirts
These pieces can be combined with lingerie or worn on their own to create a modern and stylish boudoir look.
Simple and Minimal Looks
Some boudoir sessions focus on simplicity rather than elaborate outfits. In many cases, less clothing actually allows lighting and composition to create the most striking images.
Minimal looks may include:
• A robe
• Bed sheets
• Simple underwear
• Bare shoulders or wrapped fabric
This style is often referred to as fine art boudoir photography, where lighting and shadow become the focus of the image.
Bring a Few Outfit Options
For most boudoir photoshoots I recommend bringing two to four outfit options. This allows us to create different looks during the session and gives you more variety in the final images.
For example:
• One lingerie set
• One relaxed outfit such as a shirt or sweater
• One bold or dramatic look
Changing outfits during the shoot also helps build confidence as the session progresses.
Accessories That Work Well
Small accessories can add character and personal style to your images.
Consider bringing:
• Jewellery
• Stockings
• High heels
• A robe
• Personal items that feel meaningful
These details can add subtle elegance and help make the photos feel more personal.
Choose What Makes You Feel Confident
The most important thing to remember is that boudoir photography is about confidence and self-expression, not about fitting a particular look.
Many clients arrive feeling nervous about what to wear, but once the photoshoot begins those worries quickly disappear. The session is guided throughout, and outfits are simply there to help create different moods and styles.
The best boudoir photographs happen when you feel comfortable and confident in what you’re wearing.
Boudoir Photography in Greater Manchester
My private boudoir photography studio is located at Spinners Mill in Leigh, Greater Manchester, welcoming clients from Manchester, Wigan, Bolton, Salford, Warrington and surrounding areas.
If you are considering booking a boudoir photoshoot and would like advice on outfits, preparation or what to expect, feel free to get in touch.
